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The #1 reason 50% of marriages end in divorce with up to 90% being filed by wives? Husbands lone wolfing without support hoping the disconnect changes. It doesn’t!

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Guesswork and frustration

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Communication breakdowns

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Sexless marriages

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Best never good enough

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Deepening disconnection

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Family disharmony

Husbands deserve the proven playbook, training and accountability needed to win the game of marriage.

If you feel lost and lonely not knowing what to do next…
If you feel anxious and uncertain about your marriage’s future…
If you feel an unspoken shame about not feeling good enough…
If you make big promises but fail to deliver…

I get it. My lone wolfing drove my marriage to the cliff edge.

Mark Usher
Founder

Here’s how the Heroic Husbands story began:

Once upon a time, a scared and lonely family man was scrambling to save his dying marriage. He found men’s work and loved it. He also found most men there were burned by women, scared of women, or bitching about women.
This man thought husbands need a space where…
  • it’s cool to deeply love your wife and kids.
  • marriage is seen as a game with simple rules to be a winner.
  • men already winning this game can guide them to win too.
  • they can train in this game and become the most inspiring leaders on the planet.

Heroic Husbands was born!

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It’s been working for Heroic Husbands members and it will work for you, too

After trying several other programs, this is 100% the best marriage self-help approach that I've come across. Nothing else has made anywhere near the massive difference in such a short period of time.

One of my challenges has been a feeling of distance between my Queen and me, but since joining Heroic Husbands it’s like I’m in a whole new marriage. There’s more spark and playfulness, and way less tension in our house and between us. My Queen feels safer around me and softens into my presence. We’re having deeper conversations, closer connection, better sex. I’ve honestly never felt more in love or happier with our relationship than I do now.

By becoming a safer and more trustworthy husband and father, I am becoming safer and more trustable for myself. And that feeling of self-trust is translating to more confidence and deepening self-esteem.

Joining the movement, you're going to see that effect spread out into every area of your life, into all your relationships, with family, with friends and co-workers. It's fucking fantastic!

Duane KennedyCanada

Heroic Husbands has been both a game changer and a lifesaver for me.

When I joined, I was in an infinite loop of same shit different day and my marriage had paid a heavy price for that. My Queen had checked out long before I had real realized the true extent of where we were at.

Through the support of Mark and the other strong men in the community I was able to work on my shortcomings and allow the blind spots that were controlling my life to be seen.

I now show up with stronger leadership, a more determined, and trustworthy presence than my former self. I walk as a king with my queen by my side. We have a level of communication and appreciation for each other now that I’m not sure ever existed in 30 years of marriage.

Dave NelsonAustralia

One year ago I was flailing in marriage and on the verge of separation. Now my queen and I are rediscovering our love for each other and rebuilding our relationship. I have created enough safety for her to be vulnerable, heal from past wounds, and welcome me back into her loving arms.

Being in Heroic Husbands has allowed me to experience the healing power of supportive masculine presence. I am more grounded during the storms of marriage and take ownership of my life. I found a deeper love for myself and the confidence to become a better man, husband, and father.

Matt LawrenzUSA

I found Marks podcast and began to understand where I was going wrong. But I was still making the same mistakes and couldn't change the patterns of disconnect between me and my queen. There would be progress for a few days, then back to despair and sadness.

Joining the movement was the best choice I have ever made. I have learned to embrace the feedback my queen gives me; I understand how mastery of my inner world lifts everyone around me; I have brothers who are there for me no matter what I am going through; and I am happier in my marriage than I have ever been.

Together with Mark and the other kings in this movement I am actively working on integrating the shadow elements of my persona and ego. This allows my queen to trust me more, open up to me more, surrender to me more, and ultimately test me even more. She can unleash her full feminine power because she knows I am here for it, and I love the challenge she brings.

I believe with all my heart that all men have the right to know how to embrace and thrive in the infinite game that is marriage. But you won’t get there going it alone, or without direct masculine feedback cutting through all your bullshit, and without brothers around you who are going through the same journey of self-mastery. We need more men who dare to be kings.

Alan HughesDenmark

I see my queen opening up and relaxing into a more steady state of being. Now no matter the challenges she or I face, I can meet them head-on with the tools Heroic Husbands has given me, which brings a sense of peace and strength to me and by extension my queen. I’m now aware of so many blind spots that have been holding me back from healing and growing in our relationship together.

I love the strong and powerful support network with my fellow brothers that is like no other. They challenge me to grow and learn much faster than I would on my own, plus the deep love and full support I receive and am able to give is phenomenal.

We all have doubts and fears, and when you’re at the end of your rope and don’t know where to turn or what tool to implement–this is exactly what you need to cut through the bullshit and lies all around us.

The wisdom and tools you’ll find here in the group of loving and powerful men are far beyond what you see anywhere else in this world–don’t miss this opportunity to change your life and marriage completely–it’s incredible!

Kerestel LeonardUSA

10X Your Relationship Results in 3 Simple Steps

1

Apply to join Heroic Husbands Training and Community platform.

2

Commit and engage like a man possessed.

3

Become a husband who matters where it matter most, at home.

Your Heroic Husbands Training and Community platform includes:

Bi-monthly King’s Coaching Calls with Mark Usher

King’s Coaching Calls library (10X more powerful than podcast alone)

Weekly and quarterly challenges to help unleash your best

Chill and Connect calls with other husbands in the community

App allowing round the clock support from other powerful men

Weekly partnered accountability locking in relentless progress

Guided meditation library designed for Heroic Husbands approach

Emotional regulation and communication mastery training

Access to Mark’s private Client Resources library

You Can Make A Difference

You Can Make A Difference

Skeptical?  GOOD!

Here’s our TOTAL TRUST AGREEMENT

01

Community Code Agreement

Members agree to our Code of Conduct ensuring every man is honoured, seen and heard in a safe space allowing explosive growth and progress to happen.

02

Commitment Agreement

No test-the-waters-toe-dipping BS, only men deeply committed to doing whatever is necessary for getting their marital shit together gain entry, so you know you’re entering the right space.

03

Zero-Shame Agreement

Marriage Up-Shit-Creek Ground Zero starting points are perfect. Confidence building hyper-focus on what makes you and your marriage progress is our aim.

This shit works. Out of all my years and the things I’ve done this has helped me the fastest in the shortest period of time. Maria has said to me in the short amount of time I’ve been doing it, the positive changes she has noticed in me.

This has given me so many tools to work with. I look forward to doing it for a long time to come.

Dean HoagUSA
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Less Expensive than Marriage Therapy with 10X Better Results!

DON’T MISS Introductory Price Only €99/month

  • Better communication
  • Better sex
  • Better connection
  • More trust
  • More confidence
  • More laughter together

You can’t afford to base your marriage on lone wolfing.

Lone wolfing only leads to broken promises, leading to disconnection and potential divorce.

The good news is you can finally have the support and accountability you need to easily build trust, connection and attraction.

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Frequently Asked Questions

What times are the meetings held?

We are evolving the service to try and cover most main member time zones to suit the majority of individual needs. A selection of call times has been created to cater for early morning US/European/Australian times, late morning/midday European times, and evening time US/Australia.

How much scheduled time commitment is involved?

We ask men to engage as fully as they can using all calls and resources to enjoy the greatest benefits. The minimal scheduled time commitment is 30-60mins/week for accountability partner calls.

Do I have to attend the King’s Coaching and Chill and Connect calls?

No. You are free to attend or skip as you wish. That said, the men who attend these calls regularly report the greatest personal and marriage progress.

Will there be replays afterwards?

All King’s Coaching Calls and live trainings will have recordings made available. Chill and Connect calls are only available through live attendance.

If I can’t make the live calls or have to miss a month – What happens my payment?

This is a subscription service. Your monthly investment remains the same irrespective of your monthly personal capacity to attend. You remain with full access to private chat support and all resources. Taking one month breaks and returning is not allowed as it disrupts accountability partner function.

What's the difference in the content of the Heroic Husbands Training and Community platform and the Be The Husband She Brags About podcast?

Think of it this way — it’s like the difference between listening to an audiobook and taking a college course with a professor. In the Heroic Husbands platform, you will get hands-on relationship training, practices and immediate feedback on your relationship approach to know you are nailing your communication, connection and attraction strategies with your Queen PLUS high flame accountability to ensure success.

I have more questions. Who should I talk to?

Send an email to support@heroichusbands.me and we’ll be happy to answer your questions.