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How difficult is it to matter everywhere but where it matters most, at home?

Your best efforts never work.

Your wife's unhappy and is demanding more.

Your wife has checked out completely.

The love that was there feels gone.

Mark Usher

Every husband deserves to matter at home.

  • Feel anxious you haven’t got what it takes?
  • Feel lost, alone and don’t know what to do?
  • Feel no hope things will ever turn around?

I get it. I’ve been there. I’ve had sleepless nights not knowing what to do until I discovered the 3 characteristics every wife loves in a husband:

This turned everything around for me in my marriage — and it will work for you, too. I’ve created my coaching program to be the best program on the planet helping high-performance men become the marriage transforming hero of their relationship.

Testimonials

With Mark I learnt and relearnt (very late into an almost 30 year marriage) how to relate to and communicate with my wife in a truly deeper and completely transformed way, which has improved the quality of our marriage and communication immeasurably.

He constantly went above and beyond my expectations and has been massively committed and supportive of my men’s work journey and the success of my marriage.

Working with Mark has been literally life changing for me and I could not recommend him and his skills highly enough.

Carlos de Serpa PimentelPartner and Global Head of the Private Client and Trusts Dept, Appleby Group, Cayman Islands

When I came to Mark I was feeling completely lost — 2 years into my parenting journey I felt like a failure in all areas of my life. I was overwhelmed and struggling to show up for my wife and son while holding down a full-time job.

After speaking to Mark I could feel he was the real deal. No bullshit or slick sales pitch, just powerful presence and deep empathy. The top 3 results I’ve had from working with Mark are:

1. A fundamental mindset shift from being a victim in my relationship to being empowered and taking full ownership of my situation.

2. I feel reconnected to my heart’s wisdom — getting out of my head and into my body and with a much clearer vision for myself and my family.

3. A better understanding of myself and my emotions along with a much greater ability to express my feelings along with my needs to my wife.

Tom CrateDenmark

Working with Mark has been transformational for my life. I've worked with other therapists, but they never “got through” to me the way Mark has.

I chose to work with Mark because of his direct, no excuses, approach. In my past, there was always someone I could push blame to, or rationalize my behavior and make it seem that I was the victim. With Mark, I learned to look inward to solve issues brought to me and to analyze my own behavior in conflict. I learned that feedback is a gift, and it is important that I create an environment to receive it in my home. The coaching has allowed me to communicate with my Queen more clearly in conflict and to quiet my inner thoughts to truly listen to her when she is giving me feedback.

I am showing up differently at home, at work, and socially. I am more reflective, communicate more clearly, and more in tune with my own emotions and self-talk. I would not be here if not for Mark, and I am eternally grateful that I was able to work with him.

Brandon MitchellLawyer, USA

Mark’s coaching program is priceless. He opened a new world for me, providing the tools to be a good partner, husband, father, and how to truly love. Knowing what I know now, I believe I could have saved my marriage. Mark also taught me how to cope with that and move forward in life. My new partner and I are in a much better place, and the work continues daily. Without his guidance, I would be lost.

I periodically review our coaching sessions and practice the tools I learned daily. I am a much healthier man after working with him. If you are struggling and looking for ways to save or improve your relationships, I highly recommend Mark’s program. Don’t try to go it alone; the chances are high that you will end up in divorce or lose your current relationship. Mark’s program can make a world of difference in your relationships.

Brian HeshlerSenior National Sales Manager, Graybar Electric Co., USA

My wife and I have been together four and a half years. I have done a lot of work on myself in that time, as has she. However, I had some core pieces of work around codependency and conflict avoidant “nice guy” behaviour holding me back from ascending to the next level of masculine presence in the relationship.

Mark set me daily practices in addition to direct feedback in our weekly calls, and there were noticeable moments of change in myself and the relationship, even within the first two/three weeks. Impending conflicts, headed off at the pass, a deeper sense of trust from my wife and a new depth of dialogue and support for me to meet my own needs.

The word “transformation” feels a bit glib these days, but it is totally appropriate here. Mark supported a crucial transformation in me and my marriage, and I’m forever grateful.

Calum StenningConstruction Company Owner, Australia

I found myself in a dark place and realized I needed to begin a new journey. I discovered the Heroic Husbands Podcast and instantly felt a connection to Mark and the truth to which he speaks. I took a step with great hesitation and reached out to Mark. Fear and discovering the truth within myself was intense and powerful.

I knew I was in the right place, due largely to Mark’s humbleness, honesty, and no-crap approach to our conversation. Much talk therapy dances around the issues. Mark does not take that approach, he gets down to it immediately. I was able to get back to my past and unfold the areas of blame and shame that I carry with me daily. My heart-closure and heart protective pathways were not only explained yet embraced as who I am. This understanding allows me to be the heroic husband I have always desired to be. The journey is far from over and is a lifetime of work yet now I believe I have the vision and clarity to work on those moments when my heart closes.

Chris WalterPastor, USA

Heroic Husbands Coaching Program teaches you the simple, yet astoundingly effective, mindset and strategies needed to win at marriage.

  • build trust, connection and attraction as simple, repeatable processes?
  • upgrade your status to Marriage Transforming Hero of your relationship?
  • save time by joining the fastest path to rapid and radical marriage transformation?

Of course you are.

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If you’ve lost hope in your marriage, you are risking heart and bank breaking divorce, only seeing kids at weekends, a life of unhappily-every-after.

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Go from being a man who doesn’t matter to being a man who matters where it matters most: at home.

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